5 Reasons You Shouldn't Take Your Ex Back When They Come Crawling Back To You

Do You Remember Why You Broke Up In The First Place?

Do You Remember Why You Broke Up In The First Place?

Why is it that when we look back on a lost relationship, for some reason we see most of the good but forget about a lot of the bad? Your brain plays tricks on you in this regard, telling you that things were better than they were as you yearn for affection and love.

It's often difficult to remember that there's a reason you broke up in the first place.

You Will Feel Worse

You Will Feel Worse

What will probably happen is that, initially, you'll be happy and forget about all of that bad stuff until, with just a little bit of time, all of the communication breakdown stuff will come back and it will be obvious to you that all of those frustrating and depressing feelings have come back. Only now, it feels worse because you already made the effort to get over that once. Now you've got to go through it all again!

There's No Trust

There's No Trust

If this person broke your heart before, it's impossible to know for sure that they won't do it again. It is really that simple...

You Deserve Better

You Deserve Better

Sometimes a broken heart leaves you feeling like you don't deserve the happiness a good relationship brings and so you're happy to take them back when they come crawling, feeling like that sub-par relationship is the best you can hope for.

It isn't. You deserve better. Everyone does.

There's Someone Better Out There

There's Someone Better Out There

If you allow yourself to be treated as second best by them then you won't afford yourself the chance to meet someone better when they happen to pop their head up. That doesn't seem fair, does it?

They do exist. They really do!!